by Saint Francis de Sales
My dear Philothea, you want to live a devout life because you are a Christian and know that devotion is very pleasing to God. But before beginning, you must understand what true devotion really is.
A small mistake made at the beginning can grow into a much larger mistake later. There is only one true devotion, but there are many false kinds. Unless we know the difference, we may fool ourselves into believing we are devout when we are not.
People often imagine devotion according to their own likes and habits.
One person may fast often and think this makes him devout, while his heart is still filled with anger and bitterness. He may refuse even a little wine out of self-denial, yet speak cruelly about his neighbor through gossip and false accusations.
Another person may say many prayers every day, but afterward speak harshly and proudly to the people in his home.
Someone else may gladly give money to the poor, but refuse to forgive an enemy.
Another may forgive his enemies, but refuse to pay what he owes unless he is forced to do so.
People may call such persons devout, but they are not truly devout.
In the Bible, King Saul’s servants came looking for David. David’s wife placed a statue in his bed and covered it with his clothes, making the servants believe David was there.
In the same way, some people cover themselves with outward signs of devotion. They may say prayers, fast, or perform religious acts so that others believe they are holy. But inside, they may have little true love for God. They are only pretending to be devout.
True devotion begins with a complete and sincere love of God.
God’s love within the soul is called grace because it makes us pleasing to Him. It is called charity because it gives us strength to do good. When this love becomes so strong that we do good willingly, often, quickly, and cheerfully, it is called devotion.
Think about different kinds of birds.
An ostrich does not fly. A hen flies only a little, and does so slowly and heavily. But eagles, doves, and swallows fly high, swiftly, and often.
Sinners are like birds that do not fly toward God at all. Their hearts remain close to earthly things.
Good people who have not yet grown in devotion do turn toward God through good works, but sometimes they do so slowly or unwillingly.
Devout souls are different. They rise toward God quickly, often, and lovingly. They are eager to do what pleases Him.
Devotion is the joyful strength within us that makes us ready and willing to serve God. Charity helps us obey all God’s commandments. Devotion helps us obey them cheerfully and faithfully.
A person who refuses to obey God’s commandments cannot truly be called good or devout. A good person must possess charity. A devout person must also carry out loving actions with joy and eagerness.
Devotion not only helps us obey God’s commandments. It also encourages us to do other good things that God may gently inspire us to do.
A person recovering from an illness walks only as much as necessary and usually walks slowly. In the same way, a sinner who has only recently turned away from sin may obey God, but still do so slowly and with difficulty.
As that person grows in devotion, he becomes like someone who has regained full health. He no longer merely walks along God’s path. He begins to run joyfully. He eagerly follows God’s commandments, His counsels, and the good inspirations placed within his heart.
Charity and devotion are like fire and flame.
Charity is the holy fire of God’s love within us. When that fire burns brightly and becomes a flame, it is called devotion.
Devotion does not add a different love to charity. It makes love bright, active, willing, and eager. It helps us obey God and joyfully follow every good inspiration He sends us.
